(MS)-You may need to pass a test in order to drive, but being a father doesn't require a licence. While anyone can be a dad, there is a big difference between being just a "dad" and being a "great dad."
Don't sweat it, though, if you need to brush up on your "great
dad" skills. You can easily do so at any time. 
Father's Day offers an opportune time to get you back on
track. Here are some ways to get started:
1. Don't compare siblings. They are separate people with
varying interests, talents, etc.
2. Get ready to play. That game of checkers in the living
room or catch in the backyard promotes bonding and mental
productivity.
3. Be prepared for the unexpected. Your baby could get sick
on the night of your firm's party. Or your wife may need to
work late one night and need you to pick up the baby from
daycare. Flexibility on your part can help control the chaos.
4. Get ready to work. You're going to have to tote that car
seat, crib, diaper bag, toys and more. It may not be the most
fun in a blizzard or heat wave, but it's part of the job.
5. Practice the art of patience. No matter how loud your
baby is crying, getting upset will only make it worse.
6. Don't ridicule or put down anyone in your home. Your goal
is to create a positive household environment, not a negative
one.
7. Listen to what your kids have to say as well as how and
when they say it. By listening, you'll learn about their
thoughts and lives and encourage them to communicate with you
even more.
8. Learn to laugh. It's true that it's the best medicine -
and it's free.
9. Give hugs, especially at the beginning and end of each
day. It's a simple way of showing that you care.
10. Be sure to say, "I love you." Those three words can make
a kid's day.
11. Keep a united front with your partner. You both need to
agree on household and discipline issues and stick with them.
12. Be aware of what is going on at home. Does Sally seem
nervous about something? Does Billy have a big test today? Be
on top of the needs and concerns of your children.
13. Maintain a healthy family. Feed them a nutritious diet
and promote activity. It's good not only for their bodies, but
their minds, too.
14. Promote honesty. Be truthful with your kids and teach
them the importance of telling and accepting the truth.
15. Spend quality time with your children. Don't just sit
and watch TV. Toss around a baseball, tour the zoo or bake a
batch of cupcakes.
These things are what being a dad is all about.
